There are enduring questions in life, and one of the best for a woman is "How do I keep my man interested in me?" We have all heard how the boy is from the "thrill of the chase" and how women should "treat them" means keeping them interested.
It seems to me that men are fascinated by a mystery: the woman he does not know, who is still an enigma, in the midst of him. But women are also intrigued by such things. The difference seems to be the innate difference in psychology that distinguishes men and women.
Men seem to be drawn to adventure on the one hand and rest on the other. Mixing that, we have recreation. Most men are quite practical physically. However, recent trends place women closer to men in this way than ever. But Mujer want substance in their men. The opposite could also be said; But in different ways.
Perhaps more than ever the genres are the same.
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Since romantic-type relationships typically only have a natural romance that typically lasts six or twelve months, each relationship needs a lot of attention, care, intention, and commitment to continue through the important phase of sustaining: loving companionship.
Loving company is what holds marital relationships together. Both give to the other. Both enjoy the fellowship of each other, despite the unpleasant differences that cause disputes and conflicts. But isn't the spice of marriage an argument? - Especially the makeup part.
5 ways to love companionship are achieved
1. Whatever interests you, as long as it is healthy, should be encouraged. The opposite also fits: unhealthy activities should be honestly planned and discussed. There must be room to tolerate and encourage healthy activities of passion. Even better if they can be shared together. If one partner is involved in or encourages the activities of the other, there is a good chance that reciprocity will occur.
3. The physical relationship is generally important to him. It may or may not be for her. If sex is important to him and not important to you, try engaging him in a discussion to see if a compromise can be made, and can be understood. If he understands you, there will be much less pressure. If you're the one who enjoys sex more than he does, be patient and experiment with his mood. It's not about what you do or don't do; like you, it's about the state of mind you're in.
4. You can be the type of person who loves to be encouraged by words. If so, and he's not overly forthcoming, try and don't let it affect his self-esteem. The problem is with him, not you. But it is not your fault if you are trying. If he is the one seeking to be affirmed by you, encourage him when it is healthy for him to hear it.
5. Gifts are important in all romantic companionships. You may enjoy the flowers, and he may not give you many. It is better not to be frustrated because the gifts must come from the heart. It is not good to complain about your inconsideration. It would be better to give her an occasional thoughtful gift and I hope she is a role model. Again, the pressure around gift giving will only degrade the relationship.
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